Showing posts with label virginity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label virginity. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Honour thy tissue ?

After a short video clip was circulated showing a 16-year-old female student and 17-year-old male student from a local public high school having sex, the head of Indramayu district in West Java province of Indonesia, Irianto Syafiuddin, has a funny way of asserting his high moral values and emphasis on women's virginity. He made a proposal to carry out virginity test on all female high school students in his district.

The proposal was dropped after parents and students protested against the proposal. I just wonder what is the purpose of finding out who is and who is not a virgo intacto. This is another immoral attempt by narrow minded people using social issues such as sex and religion to gain political mileage and portraying themselves as holier than thou. Wouldn't it be better if these people can focus their energies and efforts to bring greater economic developments to their people, rather than wasting time trying to devise mechanisms to conduct moral policing. Isn't it equally immoral and sinful to incompetently managed the economy and that lead people to live in poverty and hardship ?

I felt equally disturbed to read a piece of news from another part of the world, where a young teenage girl was inhumanely stoned to death simply because she fell in love with a boy from another religious sect. As usual, these people always legitimizing their cruel acts by claiming to defend their honour. Defending the honour of who ? It doesn't make sense to me that there is honour in killing the defenseless. But again, how can I be so insensitive to question other people righteous way of life and sacred cultures ?

Here you go again, social issues being hijacked and manipulated by narrow minded human being to imposed their intolerances on others without due regard and decency to respect others' human rights. Sometimes I do wonder what drives a misguided men to be so obsessive with a small piece of tissue. Oy yea, oy vey, sex is dirty, oh sweet virginity, thy pleasurable thingy, where art thou stick the dicky ?

Om mani pedme hum

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Big issues over a small piece of tissue.....

I read a piece of ODD news from Reuters.


It looks like Paris will soon become the prefer destination for hymenoplasty ! Now, what is hymenoplasty ? Simply put, it is a 30 minutes outpatient medical surgical process to resew a woman's hymen so that she can regain her virginity. The "hymen reconstruction" process costs approximately 3000 euros ( about RM 12,000). Increasingly it has become a very sought after "treatment" by young women of certain religion in France because, due to family honour, the men will only marry virgins.

A woman who is sexually active, but before she got married to her man, wanted to be technically a virgin again to make him feel good about landing a virgin ? Ahhhh... This world is full of religious hypocrites. Why the big fuzz over a small piece of screwed tissued ? Why not donate the money to be wasted on the medical procedure to charity causes such as orphanages and old folks homes ? My honest opinion is, if you committed a "sin", the most honorable thing to do is to repent through prayers and good deeds. Why resorting to the dishonourable means to white wash your sin. Does faked virginity equates with diginity and honour ?

On one hand, we see these people going around the world trying to impose and seeking respect for their "honoured" values. On the other hand, they also enjoyed the "dishonoured and decadences" lifestyle. Come on, give me a break. All these airs of faked righteousness and morality is choking me into sarcasms...... Now I know, for a small sum of money, you can medically reconstruct respect, tradition, morality, pride, and honour. Come on, give me a break ! I really pity those righteous men that married these honoured brides - sacred marriages that built on the foundation of lies, deceives, and faked morality. No wonder these world is in such a mess !

Not wanting to be a male chauvinistic pig and politically incorrect, but I really can't help but to have a quick jab on this social stupidity of women. I guess, behind those veils, some women are the same, two boobs attached to a lump of protoplasms.